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Friday, July 18, 2025

Rethinking My Endorsement

 Last year, I spent some time with Steve Gonsalves, author and paranormal investigator for the television show Ghost Hunters. We hit it off, and I vouched for him as a way to merge the Psi & Psychology research going on with things like mediums, telepathy, and the like, with Ghost Hunting Investigation experts. He is a wiz with the technology used by that side of the Paranormal world, and I’m anxious to merge the two fields. As our own very esteemed Dr. Raymond Moody discusses, the Parapsychology field of research is not moving fast enough, not being taken for its full worth, not entering the mainstream, and not utilizing the resources and technology that are fully at use in the world. I’m one of those who can say yes to a man’s soul’s worth; as a Stigmatic I can see this world on different layers than most. But he’s been off-kilter for most of 2025 and refuses to find grounding, spiritual healthy lifestyle. He’s not doing that great with all that stuff. I wouldn’t trust his judgement right now, since much of the spirit worker’s resource is his soul. But there’s hope for him always.  People poo-poo the Dark Side & the Light but none of that is fake, and must be adhered to since he’s a psychic, too. When I acted upon these ideas, I was smeared with contempt, with him using my sister (a known religious bigot) to reduce me to a woman so mentally ill that I’d imagine that I know him at all! Preposterous! 

That’s all,


Take care,


Sandra/Sandy Stahlman

Thursday, February 27, 2025

Selfie With the Stars

What about a selfie? Thanks, Celebrity X! 🤳🏼🤩 The Psychology of Autographs changed in recent years to be “The Selfie Is the New Autograph” and there’s a great article in Medium right here: https://medium.com/@garyvee/the-selfie-is-the-new-autograph-39ac9f3e79a9 discussing why “a selfie carries so much more weight, so much more importance” than a hand-signed item like a book or photo of the celeb.

#sociology #psychology

The Psychology of Autographs

 “It's about human connection and cool social lifestyles.” I felt like researching the psychology behind collecting autographs. I found one interesting article at Medium! 

Check it out! ✍️🤩https://medium.com/@Vincent_Apunike/autograph-signing-and-culture-28be4a2c2334 

How about you? You ever ask anybody for an autograph? Who?!! I have three times! Madeline Albright signed her book for me (see!), so did Julie Andrews Edwards! I also got my copy of Flow by Psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi autographed (that book changed the course of my Psych degree!).




#psychology #sociology #autographs

Thursday, January 23, 2025

Stigmata of December ‘24

Woke with this stigmata point, open wound type. It's tiny & clear. My full stigmatic opening came along with my Kundalini Awakening in the Y2K era, but I was aware l'd be one after a childhood vision. I don't often share photos of it, but this one's for you all.



My stigmata mentors and advisors included my University of Rochester Religion & Mysticism professor Emil Homerin, Kundalini Coach Olga Louchakova-Schwartz, & Psychologists Robert Turner and Stanley Krippner along with Psychologist/Shaman Tracy Bell and LCSW Patricia Thompson. My gifts include an affinity for Telepathic Animal Communication like taught by my mentor Penelope Smith, as well.

May peace be with you!